I definitely do not like feminists, everything they touch, they just seem to ruin.
One of the main things I truly like that they have ruined are…men.
The pillars of our society, the strong and brave who protected us during the wars, faced some of the biggest dangers in life. They fathered our children, protected and provided for us for a long time during most of history. Though they are not all great, as not all people are good people, a lot of them simply tried their best to take care of their families.
Feminists have ruined men by not only babying them, but by also not teaching them about responsibility and being tough.
Now look, I’m not talking about gays, or non-straights. I’m talking about men who are actually attracted to women, since if they’re not…well the whole point has gone out of the window. They’re not the sort of men that would have a traditional family, so it’s not my area and as is my policy I won’t step into that.
I’m straight, I like men and so that is the territory I will speak about. There are a few factors that are concerning about men being even more feminised. I’m sure almost every woman would nod in agreement if you ever ask them if they’ve met a man who was just irresponsible, lazy, lacking drive and simply does not have any initiative to protect and provide. In fact, I’m sure they would even nod several times. There’s so many men that fit that bill right there, and there’s more than there ever was. This is worrying.
Of course there are factors such as a limited job market with a larger number of people needing to work (thanks to feminism, too) and a difficult economy. I understand that, but at the same time if you live in a Western country there are so many trade-offs you wouldn’t have in the past that makes life easier. Advanced technology, healthcare, better medicine and even support systems (counselling, etc). Even with all this, plenty of modern men are just not showing much potential or achievement, no matter their field. Women are actually outdoing them.
Here are the reasons I think this had happened.
1. Feminism has pushed independence for women so far that the basic of narrative has been converted to women having to prove they ‘don’t need men’ all the time. Most women are happier in a relationship, especially when men do take care of them. However, men are now getting the message that women can do everything and they are useful for nothing. So they stop trying, to ‘let women soar’ and when it comes to a relationship, it only boils down to disappointment. Why? Because innately women still want their men to be strong and capable, married women who stay at home have a better chance against divorce and couples with a female breadwinner are a large percentage of divorces.
2. Men are being beaten down all the time and shamed for being men. When men attain high positions and power, especially when they’re white- they’re patriarchal and sexist. When they show toughness and bravado, they’re labelled insensitive and brutish. When they act like a protective gentleman, they’re suddenly oppressive and demeaning to women. The whole ‘Oh I want a sensitive man in touch with his emotional side’ crap is something I heard from women all around me growing up. Now we have all these overly sensitive men (like hipsters and absolute beta males) who have no backbone, no aspirations and basically becomes like a son you have to take care of. We all know which is the better choice to pick.
3. Oh and men? You also let this happen, by letting feminism and its women walk all over you. I understand some of you simply wanted to make more women happy by going along with it, but it still brought about some horrible consequences. Just saying.
When I say a proper man, I don’t mean Lumberjack Joe and his big pack of tools who loves chopping wood in the mountains and working in proper construction. It’s more than that surface.
Being a man means taking care of your woman and family, protecting them and supporting them. Being responsible for your duties and working through them.
What is a woman? A woman also takes care of her man, appreciates him and their family, and nurtures and cares for them. She is the light of the home, a source of positivity, warmth and comfort.
These compliment and are truly equal. Equal in importance. Equal in values.
Not the hogwash ‘equality’ feminism has been spouting out for decades.