So you want to meet and have an amazing relationship with a great gal?
So you want possibly a future wife, a reliable first mate and the loving mother of your future children?
ThatStepfordGal has your back, you know. Many of my posts tend to be geared as social commentary or as advice/discussion geared towards women, however it’s time to shine some light on the gentlemen. I want to help you as well. Why? Good men and women deserve each other, they deserve to be happy, that’s why.
Gentlemen, dating is a skill. That is something very important that I’ve learned. Indeed, dating, nearly all of the time isn’t about finding the right one, your eyes will meet and you just have to be nice with each other and that’s that. Marriage time after a bit.
Dating is rarely ever purely chance. However, your chances of success only grows with how much you know in terms of navigating through its stages and essentials.
No, it’s not like the dumb pick-up manuals that seem to be flying off the shelves.
No, it’s not the weird pick-up/date moves that those actors and comedians do on YouTube.
No, it’s not the cheesy wink and lines that drunk Uncle Jim gives you during large family gatherings.
Dating isn’t one technique, it’s a combination of elements and approaches. There are several components to dating and I’ve compounded them under five different labels that all coincidentally start with D. It’s easier to remember that way. Why am I, a woman, telling men about dating? Unlike feminists, I don’t think of either sex as a side on which you choose to fight, we compliment each other through our similarities and especially our differences- we help each other. You can read what I say and take it or leave it, that’s fine with me, not everybody will agree and I know that.
I’m a woman and knowing women, I want to help men find the good women out there. We traditional women are around, the fact that my blog had nearly 3,000 views last month proves it, adding on the comments and the subscribers I have. It’s not a big blog, however I never really thought I would even have much of an audience when I first started; there are women out there who holds these good, traditional views. Some are on here, many others are still in hiding, unsure or still discovering themselves. My confidence in this has only grown throughout the months.
I want great, traditional men to be able to find these women, impress them, check to make sure they really are traditional and have wonderful values, then be happy with them in their future. I want to be able to do all these things with less worry and more confidence. I’m going to try and erase men’s current crappy ‘dating knowledge’ from media portrayals, kooky men’s magazines and sad YT pickup artists. Many good men may have great intentions and values, though they never get the chance to show it because all their approaches are just wrong or inappropriate, they would not appeal to traditional, quality women.
Let’s stop that right now, starting with the first D: Direction.
Coming very soon!