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Ohhhhhh Boy: The ‘Nice Guys’ Phenomena

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Some of the new Youtube trends I love as of late include a Youtuber named SorrowTV, who happens to be a great maker of compilation videos he hilariously reenacts for sh*ts and giggles.

He reenacts Reddit pages that are utterly hilarious- especially the r/niceguys page, filled with sad content regarding disrespectful beta males who simply hate on females who reject them.

Because they’re ‘nice’.

This is definitely a very interesting phenomena for me, after all I’ve heard the stories from friends and acquaintances about experiences like these. These ‘nice’ guys who totally seem the nerdy virgin type who try their luck with women and when being a nerdy virgin type doesn’t get them the women, they get the rejection instead, they suddenly turn on females (think 180 degrees) and reveal their true self, disgruntled, angry beta males who only want to insult others to feel better about themselves when they don’t get their way. It’s childish yet very odd at the same time.

Now that’s real misogyny, a real hatred towards women due to their bad luck with them. Though nooooo- they are nice and they respect women, oh yes. Not the lies about normal guys that SJWs peddle all the time.

So what do I think?

This is a product of the abnormal socialisation, largely caused by feminism over the last few decades. It’s not just these ‘nice guys’ that are culpable, it’s also the type of girls they tend to chase. They’re both at fault and have something seriously wrong with them.

First of all, the ‘nice’ guys. Their idea of how to get women is to simply be ‘respectful’ and rescue them, in some weird sense. That alone should be enough for them to get women, in their mind. Even though they’re usually unfit, ugly and bitter, as long as they verbally defend women and claim they ‘respect them’, that should be fine and they are entitled to women’s time and favour. That they are a simple, next-door guy who will always put women first.

It obviously doesn’t work that way.

Seriously.

This is the sort of socialisation feminism has pushed- respect women above all and that’s basically the only thing little boys have been taught about women for the last few decades. While obviously this is important, um..looking your best and being fit as well as proving yourself to be a good provider and steady in life also matters! When you have these things, paired with confidence and not entitlement, you will get the favour of women. You can go on and on about how you respect women, though if you are unfit and doesn’t dress well with no career – basically women will not look twice at you, unless they’re the same.

Now for the girls.

The ‘nice’ guys complain that girls always choose the ‘chads’ (aka good looking guys who just get in trouble and abuse/use women) over them. Which is actually quite through. Yet why do these girls choose ‘chads’?

Since of course since the women’s liberation movement of the second wave, promiscuity has been pushed by feminists over valuable commitment. It’s okay to go for any guy you want, even if he is crap, since you can do what you want and it’s your choice. You are free to go for the chads, despite how stupid it is. Yes, women have a choice, however they are just not being taught anymore by their mothers (I know some mothers try, though they don’t listen) and female role models about good quality men and avoiding trash.

So of course these girls won’t pick the ‘nice’ guys, in fact they are low quality girls who don’t know better! They shouldn’t even be the girls to go for. Sadly, because of all the socialisation.

In conclusion:

‘Nice’ guys? Start getting fit, style yourself properly and work on your career, show women the best you can be and how you can be a good man that can support and love them.

Girls? Stop going after ‘chads’ and learn about good value men, work on your feminine/other skills (of course, get fit too) and show men that you care for yourself and can also care for them in a relationship.

Hey, you don’t have to listen to me, though. I’m just a chatty TradCon chick. If it helps, though? Then good!

10 thoughts on “Ohhhhhh Boy: The ‘Nice Guys’ Phenomena

  1. “These ‘nice’ guys who totally seem the nerdy virgin type who try their luck with women and when being a nerdy virgin type doesn’t get them the women, they get the rejection instead, they suddenly turn on females (think 180 degrees) and reveal their true self, disgruntled, angry beta males who only want to insult others to feel better about themselves when they don’t get their way. It’s childish yet very odd at the same time.

    Now that’s real misogyny, a real hatred towards women due to their bad luck with them. ”

    It’s really sad to me when they act like that. I’ve actually experienced that, but only twice (and both times when married!!!). Maybe they thought I was single or available or something, but they did (just like what you said in your post) turn into extremely hateful harassers. One was a boss at a retail store when we were very early married (I was 22).

    Again, it seemed to be because they *thought* I was single and liked me, and then when he found out I was married (I was wearing my ring the entire time), did a 180 in behavior toward me.

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    1. That’s so shocking to hear! Definitely these guys are quite the phenomena and interacting with them is just odd. I really think this is a symptom of the social education of the last few decades and I hope that in some way we can reverse it.

      It’s so odd that they react like that since the implication is if you have a boyfriend or husband you’re already off the market, it’s not like you’re purposely being mean by rejecting!

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  2. Those “nice guys” seem to think that if they behave like human beings, women somehow OWE them sex. And when they do not get laid, they are like “BUT I BEHAVED. MUM! SHE IS BEING UNFAIR!”

    They should understand that women owe nothing to men. Getting laid is a priviledge, not some basic human right.

    I too, blame feminism. Because women themselves do not think that sex is priviledge they give to men, why should men? Because so many women are so easy, it makes sense that some less intelligent men start thinking that if women “give” to almost everybody, they should give to literally everybody.

    If women started to behaving like ladies and keeping their knees together, we could easily bring back the respect of women and the appreciation of sex.

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    1. I agree on both points there! This is all damage caused by feminism, both sexes don’t value themselves and each other, especially since they don’t work to improve themselves.
      They feel they’re just entitled to it all, it’s bratty and immature.

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    2. I completely agree, although we need to be careful about pushing the idea of withholding sex for the sake of being ladies. I think that only makes them feel like their sexuality is being controlled and so they will likely rebel.

      Instead, they need to understand why giving sex away easily and fast will hinder their long term goals. In doing so, they need to know that they are still in control and their sexuality is still theirs. I’ve found so important to today’s young women.

      They don’t want to feel like they are being forced to love a certain way against their will, but once they understand their desire for commitment with men, they should want to voluntarily be more mindful of when to have sex and who to have it with.

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      1. It’s not about forcing, for sure. It’s about educating and ladies can then make their choice. They would have a clear idea of the benefits and disadvantages. A lot of education about women and men’s interactions and biology could definitely help a lot of the current and future generations.

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